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Spinal Cord Injury Association
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of Illinois

1032 S. LaGrange Road - LaGrange, Illinois 60525-2865 - (708) 352-6223 - Fax: (708) 352-9065

E-Mail: SCIInjury@aol.com

How to start a Support and Discussion Group

Support and discussion groups provide a valuable service not only for counseling and support, but also for socializing and information sharing.  "Old timers" have information to share with newer injuries, and groups have more influence with vendors or medical professionals to present information and products.  If there is not a support group in the community, one can be started following the steps below.  The process of beginning a support group can initially seem daunting; however, it is easier if broken into little pieces:

 

People * Planning * Place * Publicity * Programming
(see also SCII Support Groups)

People

After deciding to start a support group, identify two or three persons who share the interest in starting (not simply joining) a support group. Although it is possible to run a support group alone, it is easier and chances of burnout are reduced if others assist with the process.

Consider these questions: How many people want a support group?  Is there a group who has expressed an interest in meeting for support?  Is there a concentration of SCI in one area?  A feel for the demographics will affect not only who attends, but where the meetings will be held and what the group's emphasis will be.

Who can attend?  Should the group only be for people with SCI and spinal dysfunction, or can individuals with other disabilities attend?  Should it be only for people with disabilities, or should it include family members and friends?  Having two separate meetings, one to address the concerns of those with disabilities, and another to include the family and friends.  Many options are available, depending on the needs of the group.

Planning

Frequency of meetings, location of meetings and emphasis of the group are items that need to be addressed prior to the first meeting.  If the group meets less than once a month, it runs the risk of losing momentum and focus.  Some groups have the interest to meet more than once a month; if so, go with the interest, but don't feel that every two weeks is the norm.

Decide on the kind of group: Peer support groups are led by others with similar disabilities.   Usually thee groups are not led by a professional like a social worker or rehabilitation psychologist or counselor.  A reasonable compromise might be a psychologist or counselor with a disability.

Professionally led support groups are led or advised by a professional, such as a rehabilitation psychologist, social worker or rehabilitation counselor.

Discussion groups are not necessarily support groups, but ones with an educational emphasis to them.  Tools used include videos, specific topics at each meeting, or speakers.  Often, after the presentation, the group is given time to discuss the topic.

Place

Decide on a central location.  In many areas, transportation is a major problem.   A rehabilitation hospital can provide a good location, as many people already know where it is, and meeting rooms are generally available, and there are many professionals interested in SCI.  A private residence with a large room, or a clubhouse makes a good alternative, as are church halls, independent living centers, etc.  The location should be accessible, with plenty of parking and be wheelchair accessible. This includes the restroom facilities.

Groups may be tempted to have rotating meetings to make the meeting more accessible to people with transportation problems.  This has benefits and potential problems.  A benefit is that some people will have at least a few meetings in their area.  This can increase the total number of people attending through the year.  A potential problem is that the group becomes fragmented because only certain people attend certain meetings.  Also, unless the meeting locations are well publicized in advance, people may forget where the meeting is and decide not to attend.  With the same location, people always know where to go.

Publicity
  • Publicity is crucial to beginning support groups.  It is important to leverage all available media (especially free outlets).  For example:
  • Newspapers usually have a place to announce support meetings and clubs;
  • Radio stations to public service announcement (PSA).  Make a special effort to try for stations that serve the population you want (usually young males).
  • Television and cable stations also place PSAs; the community access channel in the community is an excellent resource.  Many cable channels have a scrolling marquee that announces meetings in the area.
  • Fliers announcing the meeting (date, location, time and brief description of the purpose).  Remember that a passerby may only look at a posted flyer for two to three seconds, so use large type and few words.  Distribute the flyer to all on the mailing list.  Visit independent living centers and hospitals and ask to be allowed to post the flyer.  Ask the hospitals, living centers and other organizations and businesses to be the mailing to the group.
Programming

Will the meeting follow an agenda?  Will they have an education component to them?  Vendors are a good source of information on equipment and often will speak to groups.  The area vocational rehabilitation department may offer a speakers bureau.  The local rehabilitation hospital is an excellent resource for speakers.  Poll the group to assess their interests; they are a valuable resource as well, as each person has something they can contribute (skills, experience, etc.).  Books, videos, and movies that deal with disabilities are available, sometimes through the local public library.  Fanlight Productions is a source for specialty videos on disability (800) 937-4113.  Peer visitation programs, prevention programs, and educational programs at schools are interesting and fun to do.

Encourage people to come early to have time to mingle and get comfortable; have a sign-up sheet with spaces for address and telephone number - this will keep your mailing list up-to-date and allow your support group to grow.

This is not a comprehensive listing of what to do to run a support group.  For more information, call the SCIA for more information.

This is an informational resource only.  The SCIA neither endorses nor recommends any of the products or services provided by the sources listed below.

Support Group Meetings
(click on highlighted text to go to website)

ACCESS LIVING CIL
614 W. Roosevelt Rd.
Chicago, IL 60607
Ginger Lane
(312) 253-7000
MARIANJOY HOSPITAL
26W 171 Roosevelt Road
Wheaton, IL 60187
Jim Decker
(630) 462-4444
 SCHWAB HOSPITAL
1401 S. California Blvd.
Chicago, IL
Kris Vertiz
(773) 522-2010
(For Spanish speaking individuals and cross disabilities)
ACCESS LIVING - WEST SIDE
5071 wEST cONGRESS
Chicago, IL 60644
(773) 287-3280 V
OAK FOREST HOSPITAL
15900 S. Cicero Ave.
Oak Forest, IL 60452
Lynda Harper
(705) 633-3530

CROSS DISABILITY SUPPORT GROUP MEETINGS

DUPAGE CENTER FOR INDEPENDENT LIVING
739 Roosevelt Rd., Ste. 108, Bld. 8
Glen Ellyn, Il 60137
Darlene J. Magialardi
(630) 469-2300 - Fax: (630) 469-2606

BLOOMINGTON, IL CENTRAL ILLINOIS DISABILITY AWARENESS ASSOCIATION
Jeanette Osborne
(309) 662-8327 or
Linda Anderson
(309) 747-2354

PARALYSIS SUPPORT GROUP
Memorial Medical Center
Regional Rehabilitation Center
CONTACT: Dawn M. Lucase, PT
Clinical Coordinator for Spinal Cord System
Care Memorial Medical Center
Springfield, Illinois 62781 

SIBLING SUPPORT GROUPS

ADVOCATE ILLINOIS MASONIC MEDICAL CENTER
Pediatric Development Center,
Sibling Support Group Program
3040 N. Wilton, 2nd Fl.
Chicago, IL 60657

HEALTH RESOURCE CENTER FOR WOMEN
345 E. Superior St.
Chicago, IL 60611
Linda Johnson
(312) 908-7997
ROC (Respect Our Caregivers)
Family members support group
Usually meets on 3rd Saturday of the month, 11:00 am - 2:00 pm at The Water's Edge Restaurant, McDonald's Campus

2815 Jorie Blvd.
Oak Brook IL 60521
Georgianna Jezek
(708) 865-0539
YOUNG MEN'S SUPPORT GROUP
Access Living
614 W. Roosevelt Rd.
Chicago, IL 60607
Call: Jose Ocampo, Jr. (708) 656-3826
Email: William Avevedo
LAKE COUNTY CIL
377 N. Seymour Ave.
Mudelein, IL 60060
(847) 949-4440
Fax: (847) 949-4455
email: lccil@dis.net
RUSH NEUROGICAL INFORMATION GROUP
A support group for families
Rush University Medical Center
1725 W. Harrison
8 Kellogg Bldg. Family Waiting Room
Wednesdays, 2:30 - 4:00 PM
(312) 563-2703
 

Today, the Internet provides many resources for people with spinal cord injuries to meet and talk; a few are listed below, but a thorough search, depending on the needs of the individual, is advised.

SCI RING

ABILITY

VENT USER'S LIST - DISCUSSION GROUP

Spinal Cord Injury Association of Illinois is a member of Community Health Charities of Illinois. For "Equal-opportunity-choices" in your payroll deduction program contact Mercedes Rauen, Spinal Cord Injury Association of Illinois, 708-352-6223.